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The Next Stage Newsletter
May 2006


Dear reader,

May's newsletter introduces a new 03:56 minute video clip titled "Learn How to Take Care of Your Voice". If you received this newsletter from me personally, you're already on our free info list so there is no need to type in your name & email in the box. Simply press the play button/arrow to view. Click here to watch it now.

I have the pleasure of being a featured speaker in Singapore on May 18th at the Asian Summit for Secretaries and Admin Professionals. Have a look at the programme here ASSAP 2006. You can also find me on or offstage at the National Achiever's Congress on May 19th at the Singapore Expo.

Wishing you a marvelous May,
Deborah
 

In this issue
  • 19 Timeless Tips to Keep Meetings Short
  • Out & About
  • Q&A
  • On the Personal Side
  • Quotable Quotes

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    Out & About

    Here I am at the World Internet Secrets Seminar organized by Success Resources in late March 2006. I had the honor of sharing my experience being mentored by the remarkable Stephen Pierce, who looks on in this photograph.

    His new book "Secrets to Creating Wealth" is a straight forward, simple, step-by-step guide to help you identify what's holding you back and take powerful, patient and purposeful action to achieve your goals.

    The wealth strategies outlined in Stephen's book are solid. They will help you to dream big, create a realistic action plan, and implement an uncomplicated success strategy, in your own time, that honors your commitments to your self, your family, your community and your higher power.

    Secrets to Creating Wealth by Stephen Pierce on Amazon

     

     
    Q&A

    In a recent interview with my dear friend, mentor and colleague Arthur Joseph, we talked about why all leaders need to master the art of voice. Arthur, pictured on your left, is the founder of the Vocal Awareness Institute.

    Deborah: Arthur, you wrote an excellent paper for the World Leadership Summit in Abu Dahbi, United Arab Emirates about Voice and Leadership. Today I’d like to discuss why you feel that every leader needs to master the Art of Voice. Where shall we begin?

    Arthur: Voice is power—2500 years ago, the great Roman orator Cicero understood this. There was a Roman system of oratory that trained public speakers. It taught seeking out ideas or lines of argument; structure and organization; diction and style; physical delivery; and memory (speeches could last for hours and as they were spoken, not read, they had to be learned by heart.) From Moses to the Sermon on the Mount, from Mohammed to Gandhi, from Adolph Hitler to the fireside chats of Franklin Delano Roosevelt Voice has changed the world from the beginning of time.

    Deborah: Today’s leaders have somehow lost the art of vocal empowerment and powerful voice. Why do you think that is?

    Arthur: To truly be in mastery as a leader, one has to be in mastery in one’s communication skills. This requires meticulous preparation, scrupulous attention to detail and as in any other form that teaches mastery, it requires the conscious integration of mind/body/spirit. Every business leader, every political leader, great athlete, broadcaster, performer, artist that I train is seeking the same goal—to be the best of themselves possible—consciously— in the moment of performance/presentation.

    With the advent of the invention of the telephone over 100 years ago, we began to lose the art of letter writing. Now, since the computer age, we have begun to lose the art of communication. Typing is not chatting. It is typing. And I see every day wherever I teach in the world, more than ever, people’s inability to communicate confidently in public. It is not a lost art, but rather a misplaced one. It is my professional and artistic goal to travel the globe showing one and all how to recapture their innate ability to be themselves whether speaking one- on-one or to millions. However, one of the challenges is that voice is the most intimate art form.

    Deborah: We’ve often hear that public speaking is the world’s greatest fear. Would you share your views on this?

    Arthur: We very often feel exposed—self- conscious rather than conscious of Self. Carl Jung even refers to the vocal area as the “ring of fear.” Sociologists misguidedly consider public speaking the greatest fear. As you’ll see in a moment, they’re mistaken. The Latin root for the word intimate “intimus” means intrinsic or essential. It is intrinsic to be who we are and essential that we must. So if public speaking is not the greatest fear, what is? There are actually two fears—fear of abandonment and ownership of our power, and nowhere does this become more glaringly obvious than in the moment of public presentation. We hold our breath. Our body language tenses. Our eyes flutter. Our jaw tightens. We speak too fast. Pitch rises. We wonder what others might be thinking of us, etc. In these ways and others in perhaps a most critical situation, we exhibit inappropriate behaviors that interfere with the messenger and the successful communication of the message. Clearly stress-related evidence. The bottom line is we are not in charge. Circumstances and an understanding of what it truly takes to communicate our message and embody leadership at the highest levels are not understood and have not been taught.

    Arthur Joseph and I will be releasing a new voice training program together later this year. To read Arthurs paper titled "A New Paradigm for 21st Century Leaders" in its entirety click here.

     

     
    On the Personal Side
    Life waits for no one and in this day and age of technology where people can get easily overwhelmed by the fast pace of emails, mobile phones and BlackBerrys.

    Make time for your close family and friends. Don't rush through life or save your love for special occasions. Savour the precious moments with the one's you love for they often pass with the blink of eye.

     

     
    Quotable Quotes

    "Never continue in a job you don't enjoy. If you're happy in what you're doing, you'll like yourself, you'll have inner peace. And if you have that, along with physical health, you will have had more success than you could possibly have imagined." ~ Johnny Carson

    “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi

    “There is no greater happiness than to live your mission.” ~ Daisaku Ikeda

     

     
    19 Timeless Tips to Keep Meetings Short
    Thorough meeting preparation alleviates anxiety. Good planning guarantees that meetings are relevant, don’t overrun and aren’t held back by uniformed, boring or disinterested attendees. Follow these 19 timeless tips to keep your meetings on track and on time.

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